no unreturn'd love

惠特曼老人家就是大气，美国的清新混沌大气。比如：他说：

Sometimes with One I Love
by Walt Whitman

Sometimes with one I love I fill myself with rage for fear I effuse
unreturn'd love,
But now I think there is no unreturn'd love, the pay is certain one
way or another,
(I loved a certain person ardently and my love was not return'd,
Yet out of that I have written these songs.)

是啊，可是有谁又能拒绝爱呢？当然你不要占有。。。爱很短暂，是因为太自私，算计了，总是不愿付出。爱是一种能力，也是一种品德。